Women

So while at home in Texas over the summer, I got to have some man-to-man convo with my Dad. Long story short, we ended up on the topic of my ex and he says “I think that she made you gun-shy around other women”.
It blew my mind that my Father would have the answer to a question I’d been asking for years. But now it raises the question of how do I become comfortable around women again? Well, my physical appearance isn’t going to help anytime soon. Neither is my lack of self-respect or confidence. I don’t know where or even how to start down that road. I don’t know why I’m even posting here, I only have like one follower.